Do you know the women in your man’s life?
As the woman who’s taken centre stage in your man’s life, have you weighed the calibre of every woman in his life – where do you fit in, are you above or below standard?
Take a look at the kind of woman his mother (including aunts and grandmothers) is and the kind of women his sisters (siblings, cousins and sister-in-laws), his friends (former schoolmates, colleagues, acquaintances etc) are. The fibre of the women in your partner’s life will tell you a lot about his character.
Imagine if your man is from a family of homewrecking, abused or abusive women – what would be his perception of women be and most importantly, how would he treat you? Just like a man who was raised by mollycoddling women – what kind of friends would he have and what kind of woman would he want you to be in his life as his partner? Obviously men who were raised by strong women are moulded into gentlemen – with this one you’re guaranteed a “monster-in-law” free marriage and you won’t have to worry about him having extra marital affairs PROVIDED you yourself are a strong woman.
Your man might not be a mama’s boy but we all know how much of an influence the women in his life can be, and some of those women are more influential than others. These influences can either break or make your marriage or relationship. All you have to do is acquaint yourself with with these women – get to know their values and get to understand the foundation of her relationship with your man, by doing this you’ll quickly detect who’s good and who’s bad for your union. Most importantly be the greatest influence in your man’s life.
In Coco Chanel’s words, “Women have always been the strong ones of the world. The men are always seeking from women a little pillow to put their heads down on. They are always longing for the mother who held them as infants.”