Twin Flames

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Twin Flame reunions are the most fulfilling relationships humans can ever enter into. However, twin flame couples have been extremely rare on the planet but despite this more and more twins are finding each other now because of the speeding up of spiritual transformation and opportunities for soul evolution which people are experiencing.

When flame twins get together, it is for some kind of spiritual service work. This is their main reason for finding each other – through their union a huge amount of creative energy is birthed and it is to be used for their mission together.

The union of a twin flame is more intense than any other union, and this intensity is at a soul level. Even though other attractions like physical, emotional or romantic attractions do exist in a twin flame union but the strongest attraction is of spirit – this is one of the distinguishing characteristics of a twin soul.

The chance of meeting and staying with your twin depends on how evolved your soul is and how much of your baggage from the past and present lives you have cleared. The biggest reason twins have to separate after coming together is because each twin should deal with their individual emotional baggage so that when they reunite there shouldn’t be anything between the both of them which could block their closeness to one another. This means that the twins should separate to heal everything that hasn’t been previously healed.

When flame twins reunite, both of them experience the heightening of their spiritual growth and awakening – they get on the fast track of learning about esoteric wisdom and experiencing other states of consciousness. They usually haven’t been together all that often during their series of lives in this world thus their backgrounds may be different, yet there is a closeness and similarities of spirit that are inexplicable and such a closeness and similarities are noticed in many ways – such as looking back at yourself when you look at your twin and you get to remember of the distant past when you first split up.

Guidance is strong in these relationships and usually one or both of these twins have a good channel of communication with the Spirit. The connection between these twins is telepathic and hugging each other is like coming home for replenishment.

Our twin flames can be lovers, sisters, brothers, friends, cousins or even our mothers or fathers. For some people they arise at the most convenient of times and for others they arise at the most complicated of times. For others twin flames are said to not arise in this lifetime but are nevertheless with them in spirit.

I had thought that nothing good could come out of 2016 for me but I was wrong – I believe that I finally realized who my twin flame is, on my December 28th birthday.

2016 was definitely a spiritual year for me…

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“Underperformer”

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The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is if he cannot get his game on in the bedroom. This is the Armagadon of any relationship because not only does this make a man feel emasculated but it’s also a deal breaker for a lot of women.

Everyone in their relationship would love to experience their own 50 Shades of Grey – it is human nature. That’s why we even have people who take time out of their lives to study and quakify in the scientific study of human sexuality , including human sexual interests, behaviours and functions – that’s how much sex is important.

There are main types of male sexual dysfunctions and these are:
-Erectile dysfunction (difficulty getting/keeping an erection)
-Premature ejaculation (reaching orgasm too quickly)
-Delayed or inhibited ejaculation (reaching orgasm too slowly or not at all)
-Low libido (reduced interest in sex)

Any of these sexual dysfunctions can be caused by heart disease, clogged blood vessels (atherosclerosis), high cholesterol, high blood pressure, diabetes, obesity, metabolic syndrome — (a condition involving increased blood pressure, high insulin levels, body fat around the waist and high cholesterol), parkinson’s disease, multiple sclerosis, peyronie’s disease — (development of scar tissue inside the penis), certain prescription medications, smoking, alcoholism, sleep disorders, treatments for prostate cancer or enlarged prostate and surgeries or injuries that affect the pelvic area or spinal cord. There are also psychological causes of sexual dysfunctions – these include depression, anxiety or other mental health conditions, stress and relationship problems due to stress, poor communication or other concerns.

These causes of sexual dysfunction are serious ones but often times women will mock men for not being able to satisfy them in bed as if it’s a learning disability – if she doesn’t cheat on him she’ll fake her orgasm. The danger about faking an orgasm is that this man is falsely convinced that he is “Tarzan” and even if he feels that he needs to seek medical help for a problem he’s picked up in his sexual drive he’ll simply sit back because his woman is giving him the impression that she’s satisfied with him. Ladies, the bedroom pretence you’re putting up is actually prolonging your partners problem, a problem which could possibly cut his life very short.

They say speech is silver, silence is golden but not in such a situation – here silence kills.

We know that men can be very touchy when you question their “manhood” and they even become worse when you mention a doctor but as his woman if you love him you’ll not keep quiet and you won’t add to his frustrations.

If you know the cause of his sexual problems be patiently supportive and don’t love him less. If you don’t know what could be wrong start a conversation by dropping hints here and there and listen to his responses, those responses will direct you to the next step. If he’s hard to crack open start leaving men’s health articles around the house like love notes – he’ll eventually get the message. And practice what you preach – if you tell him of exercising and eating healthy, let him see it from you first.

How do you look at someone you love and tell yourself it’s
time to walk away?