The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is if he cannot get his game on in the bedroom. This is the Armagadon of any relationship because not only does this make a man feel emasculated but it’s also a deal breaker for a lot of women.
Everyone in their relationship would love to experience their own 50 Shades of Grey – it is human nature. That’s why we even have people who take time out of their lives to study and quakify in the scientific study of human sexuality , including human sexual interests, behaviours and functions – that’s how much sex is important.
There are main types of male sexual dysfunctions and these are:
-Erectile dysfunction (difficulty getting/keeping an erection)
-Premature ejaculation (reaching orgasm too quickly)
-Delayed or inhibited ejaculation (reaching orgasm too slowly or not at all)
-Low libido (reduced interest in sex)
Any of these sexual dysfunctions can be caused by heart disease, clogged blood vessels (atherosclerosis), high cholesterol, high blood pressure, diabetes, obesity, metabolic syndrome — (a condition involving increased blood pressure, high insulin levels, body fat around the waist and high cholesterol), parkinson’s disease, multiple sclerosis, peyronie’s disease — (development of scar tissue inside the penis), certain prescription medications, smoking, alcoholism, sleep disorders, treatments for prostate cancer or enlarged prostate and surgeries or injuries that affect the pelvic area or spinal cord. There are also psychological causes of sexual dysfunctions – these include depression, anxiety or other mental health conditions, stress and relationship problems due to stress, poor communication or other concerns.
These causes of sexual dysfunction are serious ones but often times women will mock men for not being able to satisfy them in bed as if it’s a learning disability – if she doesn’t cheat on him she’ll fake her orgasm. The danger about faking an orgasm is that this man is falsely convinced that he is “Tarzan” and even if he feels that he needs to seek medical help for a problem he’s picked up in his sexual drive he’ll simply sit back because his woman is giving him the impression that she’s satisfied with him. Ladies, the bedroom pretence you’re putting up is actually prolonging your partners problem, a problem which could possibly cut his life very short.
They say speech is silver, silence is golden but not in such a situation – here silence kills.
We know that men can be very touchy when you question their “manhood” and they even become worse when you mention a doctor but as his woman if you love him you’ll not keep quiet and you won’t add to his frustrations.
If you know the cause of his sexual problems be patiently supportive and don’t love him less. If you don’t know what could be wrong start a conversation by dropping hints here and there and listen to his responses, those responses will direct you to the next step. If he’s hard to crack open start leaving men’s health articles around the house like love notes – he’ll eventually get the message. And practice what you preach – if you tell him of exercising and eating healthy, let him see it from you first.
How do you look at someone you love and tell yourself it’s
time to walk away?